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posted on January 24, 2013 by Rebecca Simmons

Sisters teaching sisters

Last weekend we took a family bike ride. My middle girl still rides on the tag-along attached to my husband’s bike, with the trailer pulling our little girl behind. We call it the “Simmons Train.” While riding home my oldest daughter was thinking how fun it was to ride a bike and decided it was high time her middle sister learned how fun it was too.

So she taught her. In the front yard, when we got home.

DSC_0070 DSC_0065 DSC_0073 DSC_0066Both of them were so proud. One because she felt like a good teacher and one because she was on her way to learning something new. It’s these moments that make the work of mothering all worth while. Like getting a good report card, written for the heart.

Smiling sisters and knowing just how much they mean to each other is truly priceless.

Filed Under: Mothering

posted on January 22, 2013 by Rebecca Simmons

Meal Planning and kids making dinner

A few weeks ago I put a dry erase board (made from a photo frame) above the sink and started listing a weekly menu – and by default, began a new system of meal planning. I was surprised how much everyone enjoyed knowing what was going to be for dinner. I was most surprised how much my husband appreciated knowing what he would be coming home to after work. Previously, dinner was an impromptu decision that happened oh – around 5:30 each night.

The small notebook shown in the photo is where I jot down items to pick up at the grocery store. It’s handprinted from Vermont Vittles.

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Then, the kids got involved by wanting to help make the menu. I took that opportunity to get them more involved in the kitchen and start helping to make dinner. Now all three of them have a night where they each make dinner. Obviously, I help a lot – especially with my three-year old. But my hope is that soon, the two older girls will have a couple dinners they can make by themselves, for the family.

After a few weeks of working out the tweaks I found them taking turns every other night works best. No one likes cooking on Saturday or Sunday because they would rather be playing outside and riding bikes with dad. So for now on they will cook Monday, Wednesday and Friday. They are not allowed to cook the same thing two weeks in a row. And they must prepare an all round balanced meal. It is all based on eating real foods, like what we did for the Real Food Challenge.

Last week my middle girl made bow tie pasta with red sauce and shredded cheeese, with raw carrot strips. My little girl helped with fish taco night, making the beans, rice, fish, and getting out all the fixings. My oldest girl ended up getting out of dinner last week because of our surprise snow day. But the week before she enjoyed making fried okra, roasted asparagus, noodles and red sauce. I  made Minestrone soup and grill cheese sandwiches. One night we had manderine orange veggie (faux) chicken, sweet potato fries, kale, cheesy cauliflower,  and scrambled eggs. It’s all basic stuff, inspired by what was in our CSA box, what struck me as interesting at the grocery store or the feeling that everyone needed an extra boost of protein.

Here’s what’s on the menu this week. 

Sunday – middle girl cooks – Chicken tenders breaded in fresh corn meal, roasted carrot strips, “lettuce salad” from roman lettuce with cut spinach and vinaigrette. (We also had a block of cheese on the table for the non-meat eaters.)

Monday – cabbage potato soup and spinach, feta scrabbled eggs. (With left over chicken tenders, beans, hummus and pittas for the soup protesters.)

Tuesday – little girl cooks – French toast and fruit kebabs

Wednesday – Spaghetti night with veggies from our CSA.

Thursday – Spinach Frisbees (from the cookbook One Bite Won’t Kill You) and sweet potato fries.

Friday – oldest girl cooks – Tomato soup (from the Southern Living Kids Cookbook) and grill cheese sandwiches in the panini maker.

Saturday – we go out for dinner!

Here’s a few snapshots of the kids making dinner….

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(Please ignore the clutter in the background that did not belong on that table. It shows we are not perfect here. But my oldest girl was SO proud of making dinner that night, it’s worth the shot – and the added play dough dinner on the table)IMG_2491

Filed Under: Montessori, Real Food Tagged With: cooking with kids, kids making dinner, meal planing, one bite won't kill you, real food, real food with kids, southern living kids cookbook. meal planning with kids

posted on January 18, 2013 by Rebecca Simmons

A Simple Moment

A Simple Moment is a post that appears here every Friday.
A photo I want to remember of a simple moment, with a few simple words.

If you are inspired to do the same, leave a link in the comment section for all to see and read.

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A Simple Moment was inspired by SouleMama. Visit her site to see many more moments.

Filed Under: Simple Moments Tagged With: simple moments, soule mama

posted on January 17, 2013 by Rebecca Simmons

I got my snowy wish!

Here is East Tennessee we are never quite sure if the snowy forecast will really stick. That’s pretty much how snow goes in the South. Last year we got zero snow. The sleds came out zero times. It never really felt like winter.

At 2:00 on Thursday I left the pick up the girls from school. The temperature in my car said 34 degrees and it was raining. Fifteen minutes later, still on my drive, it was sleeting and the temperature had dropped to 32 degrees. By the time I got to school five minutes later it was 30 degrees and the snow was coming down in buckets. Since I didn’t really believe the forecast, I thought we had time to stop for some milk after school. Because just incase it did snow, I wanted to have plenty of hot chocolate.

So then, I was totally the person in the grocery store, with a total for four kids (we car pool) buying milk, bread and eggs. The girls were all so excited about the snow, it was totally worth it. And then we had slow drive home, coming home to this.

DSC_0041IMG_2551IMG_2554It didn’t take long for the snow gear to go back on and the girls pulled the sleds from the basement, to play in the VERY WET snow.

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Thinking the bigger kids would follow me to the park and big sledding hill, I took off for a walk with my little girl. 

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They didn’t follow us. And we had a beautiful, cold, wet walk. I LOVE walks in the snow. I love that snow is rare enough where we live, that the world seems to stop. It’s a wonderful special kind of peace when it snows. 
IMG_2568IMG_2571Our walk was followed by an impromptu gathering at a neighbors house with more children, adult conversations and thankfulness for our wonderful community. School is out tomorrow. Cinnamon rolls, building a snowman, indoor games by the fire and more hot chocolate is on the agenda.

Filed Under: Family

posted on January 17, 2013 by Rebecca Simmons

Winter crafts keeping the little ones busy

Crafts are keeping my pre-school aged daughter the most busy right now on cold winter days. And with a constant crowd of girls at home (mine and others), more are always sure to join her.

What was our Montessori shelf of lessons, has become our winter craft shelf. First it was decked out with Christmas crafts, wrapping materials, hole punches, card making supplies and snowman stickers. When that got old it became the place for all the new craft kits that were Christmas gifts.

But for now, we’re just having a free for all. A pom pom kit and pipe cleaners was a hit. It was designed to make detailed pom pom animals. But when it comes to crafting with small children, I’m a throw it out there and let them make something mom versus trying to have them make a Pinterest perfect craft. They have a good time this way, and course I’m there to help. We found sewing the pom poms works better than glueing. 

Then that led to sewing the pom poms together to make a string of pom poms – that was used to decorate her doll’s treehouse. 

There is a lot of crafting, cutting, and taping of things that happens for those dolls in this house! They have a mailbox, they received letters, games are made for them, zip lines, bucket delivery systems on kid-made pulley systems. It goes on and on, and I continue to be amazed how much creativity and the hours of imagination that goes into playing with dolls here, mostly led by my oldest daughter. She enjoys many various craft kits by American Girl, but still comes up with the majority of her creations on her own.

Making old fashioned snowflakes and paper chains are always enjoyed in the winter. Cutting snowflakes from coffee filters, like these from Heart of Wisdom, has been a long time fun winter activity here. My oldest daughter has made 3D snowflakes at school. The directions the art teacher sent home are  from WikiHiow.

The snowflakes below are from a kit at Hearthsong, which is no longer available. It’s meant to be something different and more complicating with stain glass paper between the holes. But my kids just pop out all the little card pieces in the flakes and enjoy them as decorations. Then, I gave the girls a bowl of glue, a paint brush and glitter to paint sparkles on the snowflakes. At the time there were five girls at my house for the day. They all loved that activity!

Last year we had fun making these snowman out of clay, when we didn’t get quite enough snow to make a real snowman. As well as ice danglers using collected things from nature, when we had some colder temperatures but no snow.  We are hoping for some real snow this year – and it’s in the forecast for tonight! 

My youngest daughter received a My Giant Busy Box for Christmas and it really has kept her busy. She likes making the puppets in it, with lots of help from me. But her favorite is the play dough. It’s so simple and such a treat for them to have store bought play dough versus plain bread dough. I’m savoring the days when cranky moments turn to instant glee with the offer to do play dough! One evening it kept the two younger girls independently busy long enough for me to help my oldest daughter make dinner.

It looked like this, with my middle girl wearing a headband she crafted from a Fashion Headbands kit, another Christmas gift put to good use during winter break.

The iPod did get some sticker embellishments during this (somewhat) unsupervised play dough process. And, the baby got her mouth taped shut – weird I know. I’m still strangley pondering the secret message involved in that from a third child who is always trying to be heard more often and more loudly.

Then they served us play dough soup and hot dogs for dinner (which is strange because we rarely eat hot dogs, even veggie ones). But still. I loved this little addition to my oldest daughter’s night to make dinner.

Next up, the craft shelf will become a Valentine shelf stocked with inexpenive crafts placed on Montessori style trays for “lessons.” Here’s a snapshot preview of valentine crafting with kids around here – a card being held too close to the camera by my little girl, who enlisted the help of my oldest girl “to draw a picture of my teacher Chrissy.” She drew a photo of her doing a disco dance, with a disco ball that said, “Disco Chrissy.” Then my little one decorated it with stickers and proudly put in her bag to give to her teacher today at school. 

The response from Chrissy at pick up time today should be fun, because I’m sure she loved the card. Man I love these quirky kids! 

Filed Under: Handmade, Winter Crafting Tagged With: Heart of Wisdom American Girl crafts, my giant busy box, snowflakes, snowman out of clay, winter crafts

posted on January 16, 2013 by Rebecca Simmons

Walking into a mindful new year

It feels strange to have been away from this space for so long. But I have, and now I am finally ready for the new year. When I returned here, to Facebook, Pinterest and email, I was welcomed back by several new likes, subscriptions, and comments. Thank you! I love spending my free time here. The fact that people read it and like it, makes it even more purposeful to me. I’m very glad to be back, and thankful to have had this quiet rainy day to sit by the fire and write.

We had a wonderful winter break from school. It was somewhat of a magical break, where I loved spending everyday with my children. In the 24 straight days they were at home with me,  I  didn’t have a single instant when I was wished school would hurry up and start back.

There must have been some magic in those Christmas toys, because they have kept my girls happily engaged and playing imaginatively together for weeks. Seeing them play together, read together and help each other, fills my heart with smiles. (I wanted to share a favorite gift list from 2012 – I apologize if you’ve been waiting for that – but I missed that window so now it will now get rolled into a few winter activities at home posts).

But now onto 2013. For the first time in several years I had no resolutions and I ate no black eyed peas on New Years Day. Maybe I really hadn’t thought about it enough, maybe I was not quite ready to think about it, maybe I just didn’t care. I was too busy being in the moment with the girls. And for the past few weeks, that felt like the right place to be. Not sitting at my computer while they played, but joining in on a game of Candyland and puzzles. Not staying up too late where I couldn’t be fully present for them the next day, but tucking myself in with them, at their bedtime.

So these leaves me with a new form or resolutions for the new year, as our family grows another year older, needs grow bigger, parenting decisions are raised up a notch and we reach a little deeper to figure out what that all means for us.

After giving it some thought, I’m not going to make a definitive list of things to check off, home improvements to do, places to travel or things to want. Instead I’ll focus on the little things that surround us everyday.

  • I’ll be figuring out better ways  be organized at home, when it comes to meal planing, scheduling and household duties. Sarah over at Memories on Clover Lane does a helpful job of detailing how she organizes her beautiful home life with six kids.
  • I’ll be getting my girls more actively involved with chores and helping to make dinner. It’s so much easier to do things for them, than put the extra effort into incentives, teaching, coaching and the mental game of trying not to nag them about it. I want these things to be are part of their routines, doing them for themselves and for the good of our environment, similar to the weekly “work jobs” they do at their Montessori school. Large families like those at Raising Olives must have these things in place for their days to function smoothly. If they can do it with 11 kids, I can do it with 3!
  • I’ll be taking better care of myself. The dog is benefitting from this one, with regular walks. And the yoga schedule from the Glowing Body is now posted by my computer. I dusted off my yoga mat, again (the one that has been through three pregnancies). Only to discover it was stained by a coffee spill – which is so picturesque of how things go for me. Maybe I will treat myself to a new mat. 
  • And then, I’ll take a deep breath, say no to more things without feeling guilty, slow down for more moments of beauty – Like this simple one reminding us to pause – and let more things go when they are not perfect. The past is the past and the future will be different. The present is in between.
  • I’ll seek out reasons for a spontaneous trips to the mountains, quick road trips to places we’ve never been, and say yes to a friend who wants me to go hear live music with her on a Monday night.

With all that said, I know this year will be full of adventures, inspiration and happy times.

Welcome 2013.

 

Filed Under: Mothering Tagged With: glowing body, memoreis on clover lane, raising olives

posted on January 4, 2013 by Rebecca Simmons

Simple Moment

A Simple Moment is a post that appears here every Friday.
A photo I want to remember of a simple moment, with a few simple words.

If you are inspired to do the same, leave a link in the comment section for all to see and read.

Making Vegetable Ribbons from the recipe book Kids in the Kitchen, by Sara of Feeding the Soil and Kylie from How We Montessori. My girls really enjoyed making this, and it eating for dinner.

A Simple Moment was inspired by SouleMama. Visit her site to see many more moments.

Filed Under: Montessori, Simple Moments Tagged With: feeding the soil, How We Montessori, kids in the kitchen, simple moment, soulemama

posted on December 28, 2012 by Rebecca Simmons

Simple Moment

A Simple Moment is a post that appears here every Friday.
A photo I want to remember of a simple moment, with a few simple words.

If you are inspired to do the same, leave a link in the comment section for all to see and read.

A Simple Moment was inspired by SouleMama. Visit her site to see many more moments.

Filed Under: Simple Moments

posted on December 28, 2012 by Rebecca Simmons

Getting some fresh air after Christmas cabin fever

I really enjoy my time at home with my girls, with no school, with my husband around more doing the holidays, and with the bustle of entraining family coming and going. But with all that Christmas cheer, since school let out on Friday we have stayed pretty hunkered down at home, enjoying new toys and unlimited time to play.

Thursday afternoon cabin fever hit. It was 35 degrees outside and damp, after a few days of windy, rainy weather. The girls were upstairs doing some kind of gymnastics routines and banging on the floor so loudly that I thought the plaster on our old walls was going to start cracking. I sent them to the basement where they now have mini trampolines, and they turned a cedar chest into a balance beam where they were doing summersaults off of it, on to the concrete floor.

“That’s it,” I said. “Bundle, up, and get outside.” They protested by whining how cold it was. But I thought about people who live in the mountains where the cold is no excuse. I thought about their school where everyday, unless it’s raining hard or something crazy cold like 20 degrees – they go outside.

“Put on your hats, your wool socks, your snow boots, your ski coats and get outside. You need some fresh air,” I declared. Then I made a plan to take the girls ice skating, outside, that evening.

My two youngest girls happily played on the seesaw, and entrained themselves in the sand box and with a soccer ball, for at least 30 minutes until it was time to head to the car for ice skating. The seesaw is a new Christmas gift by their grandparents. It’s one of their favorite gifts. I’m grateful for in-laws who give really, thoughtful, mom-approved gifts. (Look for my next post on our favorite Christmas gifts soon!)

My oldest came inside shortly after, saying it wasn’t that cold and she was not going to wear her ski pants ice skating.

I do confess, that I watched them out the window while blow drying my hair inside, with a very hot dryer. But then again, I want’s summersaulting off cedar chest either. 

But then without another word she went to put them on. Because yes, it was cold!

The plan was not to take our three-year-old ice skating. But she really, really wanted to go. So, she went. And by golly, the little munchkin really ice skated. She fell, she laughed, we helped her back up and she did it again, until I couldn’t bare to watch her tired little legs any longer. And she fell asleep on the way home. 

Sorry for the blurry phone photos – which is the result of me trying not to drop my iPhone on the ice skating rink, while helping my middle child stay standing on the ice and be there at a moments notice for the three-year-old on skates – all while trying not making a spectacle of myself. I didn’t (but maybe I did?). Besides, the smallest ice skater on the rink was stealing the show by far.

Ah yes, fresh air makes everything better.

Filed Under: Mothering Tagged With: cabin fever, Christmas cabin fever, getting kids outside in the cold

posted on December 28, 2012 by Rebecca Simmons

Merry making and merry eating

I hope everyone had a lovely holiday. Here’s a glimpse into the merry making, baking, building and homemade goodness that happened here.

Dolls were sewn, up until the very last minute. They are from Sewing for Children, with bit of my own adaptations in the dresses. 

My oldest daughter, who helped me play santa this year with the stockings but still took joy in leaving a letter out with the cookies for santa, was the most thrilled with her homemade doll bed – built by my dad. It was the total wow, freak out kid moment when they get just what they wanted for Christmas but never dreamed it would really actually happen. I wish I had it on video, but instead of playing with my camera I was soaking in the moment. And I’m glad for that too.

She is an American Girl doll lover and has been since my parents gave her the doll Kit Kitridge when she four. She really wanted the bed for Mckenna, who was the 2012 doll of the year. She has wanted it for a good six months, and more than she has ever wanted anything in her life. She knows it was expensive, too much for me to rationalize spending on a doll bed.

In September the bed sold out. My daughter thought it was no longer an option, and there was no point even asking santa for it. My dad is a master builder. Two years ago he build a triple bunk bed for her dolls, a week before Christmas, when the homemade version santa ordered off Ebay never arrived – ever!

Coming to the rescue again, he built one for her. He did so based on this Youtube tutorial. The Gramps made version is way better than the store bought version, just because it’s built by him.

I sewed the bedding and ordered some accessory items from Etsy. It was the gift of the year!

I had big plans to make many gifts for the girls this year. But when it came down to it, I realized having a mom who was present, and not up sewing half the night before, was more important than recieving more gifts.

When my dad rolled up in his santa sleigh (okay SUV) on Christmas Eve, he carried something else so massive that I was glad I let all my homemade gifting guilt go, because he did it for me.

About two weeks ago he called asking what he could make for the other girls, since he had made the doll bed. I gave him the idea of a treehouse kind of fort that could provide open play, to be given to one special middle girl needing something unique and special to her. I sent this link to an Etsy site, for ideas. And he built this.

It is doing just what I hoped, in merging the three sisters together through play, with this special gift to my middle child who so often plays the typical role of, well, the middle child.

As for other family  members, everyone received calendars and photos gifts from Shutterfly. After two days sitting at my computer and uploading more than 250 photos  – I decided that computerized photo gifts totally count as homemade.

The making I focused on this Christmas, was the food, and the merry eating.

When our kitchen was being renovated the contractors found a recipe card for “Kris Kringle Punch” behind the cabinets that were removed. The card is brown with age and hardly tattered. I taped it inside my new cabinets with plans to make it every Christmas. My immediate guess was it belonged to the couple who lived in our house the 35 years prior to us buying it.

The lady, Mrs. Weaver, was quite the cook we hear. Her best friend, aging with alzheimer’s and widowed just this year, still lives in the house across the street. So I  took her some punch for sharing.  Her daughter was there getting ready to do their annual cooking baking tradition. She returned the jar later with holiday decorated sugar cookies for the girls. That was very merry! 

The punch was hit at our house too. It did have added sugar (I only used 1/3 instead of 2/3 cups of sugar). But I liked that the red coloring simply came from frozen raspberries. I do believe we started something that will be repeated next year.

The holidays are for sweets right?

I laughed at the site of this cream cheese chocolate chip ball served with graham crackers, after three little girls with three little knives had their way with it. 

Everyone needs to make something off Pinterest sometime during the holidays – right? Mine was this Cinnamon roll Christmas Tree, from Made it on Monday.

It was made totally from scratch. I do love the site of dough rising in my husband’s grandmother’s wooden biscuit making bowl. 

I didn’t realize going into it that the recpie made enough dough for four trees! So we sent one off with friends, along with some punch, on their Christmas travels.  The rest of the dough was turned into a french toast casserole, enjoyed for breakfast with a spinach quiche, after all the presents were opened. The casserole was a spur of the moment creation adapted from The Pioneer Women, using a pan of cinnamon rolls instead of sourdough bread, and leaving out the sugars since there was already plenty in the rolls. This might have been more tasty than the tree – but not as pretty. 

I love quiche! It’s my quick, go to meal for all meals with fresh farm eggs and veggies that are in the fridge. It took a few times to get the crust perfected, from here. Now, I will never allow my husband to buy another store-bought pie crust for his pecan pie again. He can, for the record, make three things – sweet tea, pecan pie and biscuits. And he’s looking to add pimento cheese to the list. But he brings me coffee in bed every morning – so I will never complain.

The Christmas morning quiche had onions, pesto, a mix of spinach and chard, goat cheese and some leftover shredded pizza cheese mix from our Christmas eve pizza making dinner, featuring holiday shaped pizzas.  I beat about six eggs with about 1/4 cup half and half, salt and pepper, – pour it over the crust with greens and veggies, and then top with cheese. You really can’t go wrong and the dish is a veggie lover’s protein delight. 

I didn’t take pictures of the actually Christmas dinners we hosted – twice – with two different sides of the family. Being a vegetarian my whole adult life, even though there is some meat I now cook for the three out of the five meat eaters in our family, I don’t think I could ever cook a turkey. It’s way too massive an undertaking for me. Usually, I rest happily assured that someone else will have that under control, like my mother-in-law with her vintage smoker.

This year my husband received a frozen Honey Baked Ham and turkey from a work colleague as gift. So he was in charge of the meat and the turkey gravy. He passed, and maybe we can add gravy to his list, maybe – it was from a packet. Does that count as cooking?

I am proud to say that besides that bag of potatoes (for mashed potatoes), every other dish and salad served this Christmas came from Farmer Megan and our CSA. There was kale, chard, spinach, carrots, brussels sprouts, and cauliflower. And that’s what we ate for holiday dinners. If she didn’t grow it, I didn’t make it.  And that was a very merry feeling.

For more snapshot sof merry happenings this holiday, see this post – Snapshots of the Season.

Filed Under: Christmas, Handmade, Real Food Tagged With: Cinnamon roll french toast casserole, Handmade American Girl McKenna doll bed, handmade treehouse for 18"dolls, Kris Kringle punch, Sewing for Children dolls, Spinach quiche

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